Dear Uganda’s First Lady,
You are an ardent reader of the good book. I have heard you quote this good book many times. Did you by any chance land on the verse that says “But everyone must be quick to hear, slow to speak…” ?
You were quoted saying that the women of Uganda should stop over depending on their husbands because it promotes laziness. I am sure these statements were well intentioned because yes women ought to be the Proverbs 31 woman that is hard working and obviously men are not some sort of Automated Teller Machine. But what was the basis of this utterance madam First Lady of Uganda (FLOU)?
Ma’am the food you and I eat is the sweat of Ugandan women. Agriculture is the backbone of Uganda’s economy and 90% of those involved in agriculture are the women of Uganda. Have you by any chance traveled upcountry lately? You will realize that the women are toiling away in the gardens only to be ripped off by middle-men that take away all the profits because someone close to you thought that cooperatives were not an in-thing.
The women wake up in the morning going to the markets. They pay a significant part of the taxes that this nation depends on including you ma’am. The women you called lazy make up at least 25% of entrepreneurs in Uganda.
FLOU, I totally understand where you are coming from. After 30 years of being driven around in expensive cars with escorts and sirens, eating 5 course meals daily and travelling wherever you want to go anywhere in the world, I would think so too. And as you said your job is tough “If it was not because of prayer, it would be too hard for me to be the wife of the President,” you told the women.
But do you perchance know what it means for a child to cry in the middle of the night and you feed them on water because the day didn’t go as expected? Do you know what it means for a relative to die in hospital because they could not afford quality health care? Do you know that mothers die giving birth in this country because of poor maternal health care ? Do you know that primary teachers both male and female who work their asses off to raise the future leaders of this nation are paid 200,000 – 300,000 Uganda shillings a month? about 57 US dollars with the new exchange rates? Do you know that the policewomen that direct traffic in the scorching sun and keep our streets safe live in dire conditions? Do you know that there are midwives that stay awake all night help mothers bring life to this world with tadoobas? I am also sure you know that there is the issue of unpaid care work.
Ma’am do you know what it means to go for a job interview and you are rejected because the company thinks that even though you were good many turned up for that Job? Have you ever known what it means to write a business proposal and your idea is stolen? Do you know that sexual harassment at places of work is real? Well that is part of what Ugandan women go through everyday.